Single or Married....

Today I met my university mate for lunch. She got married about 3 years ago. And last year she lost her mom to cancer. We haven't really got in touch after she actually got married.

THen today i came out that she has been having fights with her husband and some stories told were quite distressing. I mean i know the husband while he was still in secondary school. And when were in college i did meet him a few times.

But the looks of it, she lost every freedom she has. Every freaking day he calls her. Checking on her. Like a real tracker. When she is outstation for work, he even calls her after midnite every hour. What the heck is wrong with this person??? I don't get it.

I think her husband is insecure coz she is a pretty lady. And since college/uni time alot of guys have been going after her. BUT DUH. She can't help it, its in her gene that she looks pretty. But imagine having to endure a husband like that.

She told me she has told her husband many times that if it carries on, she might call it quits. Its quite disstressing isn't it... to live with this day in day out. she is not even allowed to go out with her friends. If she does, she is being said to be not putting him priority.. WHAT CRAP! Seriously.. In this bloody scenario.. i would say single is preferred hehehheee

So married also has its problems but single also has problems.. loneliness kills you. When you get home, you see the 4 walls. no one to really talk to!!!!!

What a dilemma this world is...